As time goes by we need to constantly upgrade ourselves so as to catch up with the changes around us. Changes could be in different terms. People and Context are two main issues that we need to address. Concerning what and how the changes could make us change is often an uneasy task. It takes time. We used to say or mesmerise ourselves that "Time Will Heal" but I just learnt that sometimes time won't heal.
It is the mindset of a person to determine the length of the pain and bitterness. Your attitude and aptitude determine your altitude. How you see yourself is how far you measure your ability to go. Start doing something that your future self would thank you for it. Always believe and hold on to your faith. Stay out of comfort zone and do something for the first time. You might not be successful but you take opportunity to enhance your learning curve. You obtain experience and you grow. That is the subject matter.